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A Woman’s First Date

October 13th, 2009

There is no dearth of dating advice for women when it to comes to the first date. Here are some things that you can do to ensure that your first date has the desired effect on the guy you’re dating.•    Don’t think negatively about your date before you actually get to know him. Preset notions can often lead to disaster dates.•    If you do end up talking about your ex, make sure that you not criticize him. Ideally, avoid talking about him in the first place.•    Do not get drunk on your first date. This will help you analyze the date better, and will also keep you from getting into something that you might later regret.•    Remember that it is not necessary that you keep talking for the entire duration of the date. Meaningless chatter can be quite a turn off, and it is important that you pay more attention to listening.•    Refrain from discussing family problems on a first date. There’s plenty of time for that in the future.•    Don’t seem overly anxious to get to second base either. This might make you seem needy, which can also be quite a turn off.If you can follow these simple guidelines, and if you are confident about yourself, the second date will be the only natural direction that your first date will head in.

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